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Yani-sage sambandhi Sage jo apne hai.....
sambadhi-jo sambandho se jude jall ki tarh hote hai. jo sambandho ko banaye rakhne ke liye nibhane hote hai. jo sambhalne padte hai jise samjkar samjdari se nibhane ka naam sambandh.......kai tarha ke hote hai. Maa,baap, bhai, bahan,chacha, chachi, dada,dadi,nana,nani,mama, mami,mousa, mosi,buaa,fufa,jija,ye sab apne hai. yeh sab sage hai. baki sab riste sambandho par jude hai.Sambandh banane ke bad bante bhi hai. bigadte bhi hai. har ek sambadh ke sath-sath kartvya bhi juda hota hai. our kuch khas-khas sambandho ki hi bat karenge=# jaise-baap+bete ka sas+bahoo+beti--pati+patni in sabhi ke sath uchit vayavhar karne par aap payenge sahi mayne me jindagi ka ras bhi prem bhi pyar bhi. varna--zahar,nafrat,dhikkar to aapka swagat karne ke liye tatpar he hi. yeh apne hath me hai ki aap kya chahte hai. jaisa chahonge vaisha hi milega yeh kudrat ka attal niyam hai. jo satya our shashvat hai. jaisa aap bij boyenge vruksha bhi to vohi hoga voh fal-full bhi vaise hi dega. jo hamare vyavhar ki suruvat ham hi se hokar hamare hi pass aati hai. toh dusro ko mat badlo badlna hi hai toh apne aap ko badlo. duniya apne aap badal jayengi.- kisine khoob kaha hai zaad lagaonge babul ka our fariyad karonge prabhu se aam kyo nahi aa rahe kahe prabhu na samej insan babul boya hai kante hi pavega aam chahe to aam lagao kahne ka matlab aap jaisa vyavhar dushro ke sath karenge vo bhi aap ke sath vaisha hi karenge...kabirji ne kaha hai ki Rhiman dhaga prem ka mat khecho toot jaye tute se fir na jude jude ganth pad jay |
Vyavharik-vyavhar
vyavhar vesa kijiye jaisa apne ko priy hoy....
apne ko priy ka matlab jaise aapko koi gaali de,aapko koi beijjat kare,aapko koi dhuttkaare, aapko dukh de,aapka koi mazak udaye, aap ko pasand nahi to yahi baat dushro ko bhi pasand nahi aati hogi to aap badlav apne aap ka karo duniya aur logon ko badalne ki jarurat nahi Farj--kartavya---Bachcho ka,-----bete ko sahi sanskar dena padhana likhana kya bhala kya bure ka vivek karana dusron ki bhavna ko samajna agar pad likh raha ho tab use prhotsahit karna chahiye dusron ka udaharan dekar use khud par yaani apne aap par bharosa kare ki usme vo baat hai jo har ek mukaam ko haasil karne ki kshamta aur damkham hai tohi voh har ek padaav ko aasani se paar kar jayega fir vo chahe padhai ya or bhi koi manjil ho lekin kabhi bhi aisi yaani nakaratmak baaton se use dusron ki tulna kar tum kya karoge tumhara kya hoga tum kuch bhi nahi kar paonge yeh tumhare bus ki baat nahi hai tumhari laykat hi nahi hai iss tarah ki ton markar nirutshahit kar manobal ko girane se bachcha kabhi aage nahi badh payega our dushra ghar me aaye deen hone vale zagde ghar me kiss tarh ka mahol bhasha ka prayog hota hai uska bachcho ke dil dimag par bahot gehra prbhav padta hai Rista=Saas-Bahoo ka click here |