Rista Saas-Bahooka
Yeh rista sadiyo se thoda najuk raha hai. saas ka
nam lete hi bahoo ke man ek bhay ki laher dodne lagati hai. kuch apvado ko chodkar yeh hakikat bhi hai. jo ladki apne maa-baap bhai bahan sabhi ristedaron ko chod kar ek naye mahol nai jagah naye logon ke yaha, jaha uske pehchan ka koi na ho. thodi sehmi thodi dari hui hoti hai. jaha uska swagat apnepan se hona chaheeye. vaha usko paraya samajh kar use nana prakar ki yatnaye dekar, tane markar,ya aise hi anngeenat tariko se satakar pratadit kiya jata hai. our usme sabse jyada bhumika saas ki hoti hai.aise me vo iss bat ko bhi bhool jati hai ki aakhir aaj nahi to kal eshi ke sath hi toh aakhiry last ki jindgi gujarni hai tab jab apne hath pav dil dimaag ki takat kamjor ho jayegi jab ghar ki bagdor uske hath hogi tab kya hoga,our aisa karte ye bhi bhool jati hai voh kisiki pyary dulari palko ki raani hogi. kya jaisa ye vyavhar bahoo ke sath karti hai kya voh apni betee sath karegi ya voh yeh chahegi ki ushki beti ke sath bhi ushke sasuraal me aisa hi ho na nahi kabhi nahi toh feer kyo..... kyona bahoo ko beti bana le------ banane ki kya jaroorat voh toh hoti hi hai ek uske seer par hath rakhkar deel se do nithe sabd bol kar bhrosa diya jave fir dekhe voh aapko maa kase banati hai voh aapke charno me apne aap ko nyochavar kar degi vaise sahi mayne me maa ka matlab tabhi sarthak hota hai jab koi parayi janni ko apni beti sa dular dene hi maa ke naam ko sarthk karna hai esee me sarthakta hai?????????????????????????? |
zagda-tanta=tu-tu/ me-me
zagdo me aksar dekha gaya hai ki bahoo ke kan
ya fir galt sikhaman dekar uske sansar ko nark banane ka kam bhi vohi karte hai ki tum jaise taise kaise bhi ho khaskar juda yani gharvalo se alag hona-unke sath na rahena unka yeh bhram hai ki alag rehne se sukhi ho jayegi are nadano usme uska bhala toh bilkul nahi par bura toh jarur ho jana hai kya voh log jo aisi sikh dene vale kya apne ghar me bahoo vaise natak karne par kya kisiki pyari ho sakati hai kya???? nahi toh fir toh feer aap jan bujkaruse ghar valo ko uska dusman banakar usiki hani pahuchane ka kam karte ho ha agar aap chahte hai ki aap ki beti uske sasural me sabki pyari sub use dil se chahe sab use pyar karen to use sikh dijiye Ki beta aaj se vohi tera apna ghar hai subkuch hai. tera pati hi tera bhagwan hai. tere saas sasoor tere maa our baap samjkar seva karna .our kabhi koi galti hove our koi kuch kahe de tab bhi yahi samjna ki bachcho ki galti hone par voh kahenge magar kisi dusro kahane nahi denge. our kaam ke vaste bhi bolachali hoti hai toh samjna chahiye ki. kam karne se na koi mara hai. na kabhi marega. parntu kam karte rehane se sehat toh achchi hoti hi hai. our sabki ladli bhi ban jaogi our ghar me kalh kankass na hone par hi bhagwan ka vaas hota hai our laxmiji ki kripa bani rahne par sukh ke sagar me rahte huye ghar ko mandir ka naam de sakte hai voh aape hi ke hath me hai;??????????????????????/ |